Oftentimes we, as women, leave our needs unexpressed and wait for our husbands to just guess what to do. Many men honestly dont know how to be romantic. And, when they do get up the courage to attempt romance, their efforts may not be expressed in a way that we appreciate or even recognize as romance.
Look how silly this sounds. If your son was attempting algebra and didnt understand it, you wouldnt cry because he didnt love you. As a mom, wed sit down, and go over it again and again, for as long as it took until he understood. Yet, we expect our husbands to know something that theyve never been taught. Instead of leaving your man to struggle, show him how to romance you. How will he know what to do if you dont show him?
So, how can you teach him how to romance you?
1. Be romantic yourself.
If you show him that you value him and love him on a regular basis, instead of expecting him to be the romantic one, hell be more receptive to trying it himself. The old saying You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar definitely applies. Yelling and crying because he isnt romantic isnt exactly going to put him in the lovey mood.
2. Tell him...