When you find out about the affair, the first few hours, days and weeks can be emotionally wrenching to say the least. Or, if someone you deeply care about begins “pulling away” you may also experience intense feelings. Read through this list and pick out a couple things you can do...
Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, dont act them out.
Using what you find to extract revenge will only...
Infidelity: How My Marriage Made Me Do It is a Cop-out
Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. Weve grown apart. I cant stand...
The fifth affair I outline in my book, “Break Free From The Affair” is called: “I Want to Get Back at Him/Her.” This is the revenge affair.
It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in infidelity. It is less a...
Infidelity is a funny little thing that come and bite you in the bum when you least expect it. Affairs might be fun at the time but infidelity isn’t worth destroying your marriage for.
I often liken affairs to an addiction whereby however much you tell yourself you shouldnt be doing...
If your marriage were a business, would your spouse be looking for another job?
Our most important and intimate relationships often dont receive the attention, time and training that we give our business relationships. Here are two secrets from the business world to apply to your...
If Your Marriage Was A Business Would Your Mentor Help You Through?
In sports the most successful athletes have coaches and mentors. Coaches know how and when to motivate, train, inspire and bring out the best in others. Mentors have been there and done that. While both are important,...
If Your Marriage Was A Business Who Would Be The Chief Financial Officer?
In an informal, unscientific poll of random people, I asked which of the following three issues was the most common cause of frustration in marriage: sex, kids or money. While many scratched their heads and wanted...
Brides and grooms have to thank close to 380 million people during the year 2006. It sounds like an impossible task, but there is help. Wedding favors are small tokens of appreciation presented to the reception guests. Historically, wedding favors were valued little and often ended up in the...
If you have been honoured with the duty of being the best man, one of the most important considerations is the orchestrating of the stag night. Obviously the last thing you would want as the best man is to be overseeing a stag night that turns into a disaster, so here I shall provide a...
How To Keep The Romance Alive In A Marriage – Not As Hard As You Think!
The beat thing about marriage is sharing. This will be the answer of most successful marriage couple if you will be asking them about the romance in marriage. Both can enjoy the romance even if only one...
How to Improve Your Marriage to keep it Sizzling Hot
Keeping a marriage together is a task that should not be out of obligation, but should be done because of the love and respect each partner has for each other. While courtship, marriage then divorce seem to be a regular stage in a...